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the boyfriend quilt

I decided that I was finally going to finish all the projects that I started and put aside because of (fill in the blank here). The Pauls left for a camping trip on Saturday afternoon. Right after they left, I walked through the house, rearranged things to fit my comforts. Cleaned the bedrooms, closed the doors to them, opened the back door to let in some outside air in, pulled out the projects and looked them over. Overwhelmed but able to plan it out in my head.

First thing to finish and send off was Iain’s comforter cover. We had gone to Beverly’s, picked out fabric, looked over patterns and ideas in November of 2009. Yup, that’s a while ago.  I just needed a back for it and it would be done. So, I got in the car and headed to Bed, Bath and Beyond. I picked out what I was looking for and strolled through the store to see what they had. The place is filled from ceiling to floor with STUFF but nothing that caught my eye. I’m not into filling my space up with STUFF so I headed home. I spent the afternoon pinning, sewing, cussing for making a mistake or two and then it was done. There that wasn’t so bad. It’s been mailed off. Let’s home the USPS doesn’t “lose” it.

The quilt that I intended on making for Small Paul needs to be done right so I contacted a woman who quilts with pretty stitches and dropped that off. All I need to do when I get it is put on the binding and done. I love that other people like to finish what I start.

Now Paul’s t-shirt comforter. I had to make sure the back matched the front, the front didn’t get messed up while I finished it and trying to finish it to make it look like it’s theme rather than fitting into the “quilt” box. I think I did a good job. All I need now are large safety pins to attach to the front to hold everything into place and give it an appropriate accent. I sewed it all and put it on the bed to surprise him when he got home from his camping trip.

When he got home, he was a bit beat up and tired but in good spirits. He had a great time with is son and was really happy to be home. I took him to the bedroom. He was it and “eeked” and with the happiest tone said “I’m a teenager again!!!!” He loves it. We slept in it last night. I did feel like the girlfriend sleeping over her boyfriends house with his special comforter and all that comes with it.

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Posted by on June 24, 2011 in ongoing project


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The history (of the shirts)

I asked Paul to write up a bit about each of the shirts so that there would be history that I could connect to the shirts. Being the Paul that he is, he took it to be facts of what, where, when, and a slight smidge of what it smelled, felt, sounded like. That’s more me-no facts here just senses. I was going to write post it on my terms and just use as much as artistic license to make it more than it was but then I realized this is his and his words need to be respected. So here it is… The SHIRTS…

Love and Rockets ’85-86 I saw them at the Palladium in Hollywood in early 1986. They were just starting to get big. My date got nervous and we had to leave before the show ended.

The Cure-Beach Party Tour ’86 I went to this concert in ’86 with Debbie. Before The Cure went on, a guy on the floor level of the Forum pulled out a knife and started stabbing himself. He was throwing the knife in the air and brandishing it at people close to him. LAPD came in and whacked his knees, then the show started. The first song was 100 years. The 2nd was Piggy in the Mirror. During that Robert Smith pulled off his wig and reveal he’d shaved his head, which shocked the audience.

Sex Pistols Filthy Lucre ’96 I was delivering for Fatte’s in SLO and really busy with work and school. Uncle Craig called me and asked if I wanted to come down for a show. I said I couldn’t get time off unless it was one of the BIG punk legends I’d never got to see, like Black Flag, Sex Pistols or Dead Kennedys. He said it was Sex Pistols. Obviously, I got the time off.

Sloppy Seconds “You’ve Got a Great Body…” Great band. This shirt is from the only time I got to see them. I was in San Francisco with a bunch of other bands.

Vandals “Hitler Bad, Vandals Good” I’ve seen Vandals at least 10 times. Don’t know which time this shirt was from. But the first punk concert I ever went to in 1984 was Fear, Vandals and Uniform Choice, at Fenders Ballroom in Long Beach. At that show, I got punched by a skin head. I had hair in the wrong place at the wrong time.

Dickies “There’s Something about Jeff” This shirt was not actually purchased in Europe. It was a wrestling show in Pasadena that the Dickies headlined. I went with Craig and my mom.

TSOL “Social Chaos Tour” 7/25/99 From the same SF show I saw Sloppy Seconds and Misfits. Jack w/ TSOL is always funny as hell.  “Casey, the cops only bother you if you break laws”.

DI Lead singer for DI is Casey Royer. Craig became friends with him. We used to wonder (and be slightly horrified) if he would ask to crash on our couch after a show.

NIN @ SLO in ’06.  They were okay.

ADZ Transmissions from Planet Speedball Cool eye on shirt. Formerly The Adolescents. ADZ are good but Adolescents were better.

KROQ Inland Invasion 2 Sept 14, 2002 This was one of the best shows I’ve been to. About 17 punk bands playing all day and night in San Bernadino; there are a hell of a lot of Nazi skin heads in San Bernadino. I went with Craig, Terry and Kenny. Got pepper sprayed by riot police. Kenny did too. Good times.

Bad Religion @ House of Blues Hollywood I took my niece Jamie to her first show. Good times had by all.

Texas Terri and the Stiff Ones “Eat Shit” From one of the last times I saw Texas Terri. 2nd album good but not great.

RHPS with Lips “Masters Affair” 1990 I was kinda dating Ellen Plotkin at the time and she got us tickets. The entire movie cast was there–I got to meet Barry Bostwick and Tim Curry. I had a great time even though I was mostly over Rocky by then.


Well there you go folks. That’s the history of the shirts I’ve been cutting and sewing back together again.

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Posted by on May 25, 2010 in ongoing project


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